What was your first time like?

Question

Ok. So, im still a virgin. And i dont like how they say a guy will "pop your cherry" but some of my friends (who arent virgins) say it sounds worse than what it actually is. So is it?

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It was great. I had picked a guy at my college and decided I was going to sleep with him (I was 19 and just wanted to lose it already and I'm not a relationship person so I just picked the hottest guy who seemed emotionless). So we were making out in the backseat of my car and I asked if he has a condom and I initiated everything. We got naked and he put on the condom then we tried to have sex and I say tried because I lied about being a virgin but I was so tight and he had such a big girth that it took us ten minutes just to get the tip in, he started thrusting with just the tip and as I slowly got more wet and relaxed he started inching in bit by bit. It hurt. Not unbearable but really uncomfortable. It became obvious to him with how long it took to get his dick in that I was a virgin but he never called me out on it. Just held my hand, took it slow, and asked me if I was ok and to let him know if I needed to slow down. It was so strange for me to see this big cocky fitness freak turn into such a caring guy. After about 45 minutes we stopped because we had a curfew at our military college. He just pulled out and kisses my vagina and helped me get dressed. He walked me to my dorm and that was that. I remember feeling weird because I didn't feel different or older or anything, still the same old me. We've been together over a year and a half now 😘

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So the first time I had sex, I was 16, it didn't break my hymen, maybe it was the angle (front seat of a car, him on top). It was the only time I had sex with that guy. Then the second guy (still 16) believed I wasn't a virgin, because I totally forgot about my hymen and believed I wasn't. When we started having sex we did quick foreplay and when he put it in it was tight and he started thrusting slowly and after 20 seconds he stops and hold up his hand and it has blood on it. I freak out and sit up and he just shrugs and explained   what it was. Then he proceeded to continue after I relaxed. Then he "accidentally put it in my anus" (doggie style btw) and I noticed it was different but never said anything (I was nervous). But honestly he was rough (I said I was ok with rough (like biting and pinning down, from making out) but not 7 inches as a virgin rough). I trusted that he knew what he was doing and let him lead mostly everything. We had sex for like an hour+ and he still didn't finish. 😩 I was so sore for 3 days and all that time I bled. We had sex twice after that one time. Then we didn't have sex for about 5 months then started actually dating and dated for 6 months. The sex was sometimes enjoyable but still rough af. I'm so much happier with the guy I'm with right now.

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I bled and it hurt with the guy I was with. He didn't take much foreplay time and didn't work to open me up very much. I'm also naturally tight down there and I felt like I got torn to pieces. After that time though, with my current boyfriend, I've bled and had some initial pain but just felt really good. He's very well endowed too. He told me there's ways for guys to make it so it doesn't hurt, even if you are bleeding. Make sure there's a lot of foreplay and that you're with someone you feel completely relaxed with.

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