My SO keeps picking ghetto names. 😡

We're both black and i do want my sons name to match his ethnicity. We chose Amir for his first name but can't decide on a middle name. I'm all for unique names and names that aren't easy to pronounce but I don't like thrown together names with no meaning. My SO wanted him to have his middle name, which is Dontrell. But it hate that name. I didn't want to be rude but we cannot come up with a compromise for his middle name. I'm about 30 seconds away from pulling the mom card and picking his middle name myself