2 oops (but my blessings) and actually trying has been so frustrating!!!!!

I have been trying to conceive baby #3 and let me tell ya it's not as easy as actually not trying to plan and not think about it!!!.. My first two we weren't trying and happened the first month and just were oops but the best oops in my life!! And now that we are actually trying to try for #3 it's just not happening!! Also I don't feel this is a good month we barely BD as our schedules were all over the place and I was sick too and just got over it!! Today is my "actual" ovulation day so we will BD tonight so please send some baby dust my way mamas!!