A few days ago I had a mini mental breakdown (16 weeks preg) nothing fit and I'm rummaging through all my clothes. Husband asked what I was doing and I angrily replied with trying to find anything that would fit my fat, ugly self. (My 6 year old was sitting right there.) I've always had body issues, i try to keep the negative down talk away from my children and try to avoid them even using words like fat to describe anything, even santa. After I calmed down I had to get over my small pride and sit down with my daughter. I apologized for using negative words towards myself and reassured her that's never how we should talk about anyone or anything  especially ourselves. This may seem like a silly post to some, but I think it's important we remember who's watching our every move.