menstrual cup???

Jessica • 24. not TTC. i have a boyfriend❤️.
okay so i bought a cup a while ago and i have such a hard time putting it in. i am a virgin and i believe i have a hymen (if that helps anyone) so i literally tried everything! i layed down and tried, i squatted, i tried after a shower, i tried the different ways you can fold it too. i mean i think i tried a lot of different ways and i still cannot get it in me! so like do you have any tips for me? im not gonna give up just yet! i really would like to use my cup. thanks!