Drinking alcohol while (kinda) TTC... what's okay??

Natalie • Mama to a👦 7/18/17, 👼🏻 9/26/18, 👦 8/2/19, 👧🏻 7/29/2021, 🤰 due 8/5/2023
Hi TTC-ers! Please don't judge me for asking this but is it okay to have a few drinks here and there while you're in the 2 week waiting period?? I realize I'm asking this on a Friday night, so believably some of us will be winding down with a drink, but could it affect anything? I know the books say to avoid alcohol whilst TTC but let's be real.