needing advice

Karli
Okay, I'm 24 and have been ttcing for just over 2 years and have had 2 chemicals a year apart from each other. I know that should go in and get infertility testing..but I can't wrap my mind around it..it's so gut wrenching. I've had one healthy pregnancy, a complete oops when I have very irregular cycles...I don't understand why I'm having issues now..
But my question to you wonderful ladies is what are something's like 'home remedies' I can try for maybe 3-6 months before going in for testing...
I hate that in the back of my head I'm thinking 'maybe I'm only suppose to have one' but I want one with my husband...
Oh also I've tried preseed on and off as well as 12+ cycles of OPK tracking... 
Any help or advice would be great.