"that's not good for your baby." blah blah blah

Pearl
I work in a very judgemental field where everything has to be one way and there's no limits to what you can't say to someone. I love my job, but I'm so tired of people crossing the line with comments they make about my baby. I'm 19 weeks and I'm not showing, which in all reality isn't uncommon at all, but my boss doesn't approve of that. At 13 weeks she told me I looked fat (im not showing then and I definitely wasn't showing then) and told me that I had to start wearing my maternity uniform that doesn't fit. Now she's telling me how harmful it is to my child that I'm not showing. "Why would you have a baby when your know you're in a crazy job?" "Why won't you tell anyone the sex?" "Why the heck do you think it's okay to go on two mile walks all alone?" WHY WONT YOU LEAVE ME ALONE? I sincerely HATE the judgment that pregnancy brings. (Sometimes)