You guys I am so excited. I planned my 20th. In the day time around lunch, I'll do a  tea party. There will be plenty of finger food to choose from and plenty of tea (peach, green etc) I invited 10 people. 5 of them complained and said that's a party for a 2 yr old... I saved money to make this happen. Non of my friend need to contribute, Nor should they have to. I saved money to have this nice party and have my friend try the food I made... I did let them know that if they were going to complain about the theme they can just delete my number because they were the same 5 "friends" that complained for my 19th party theme... I'm trying to do something nice And they told me all this crap about something that means a lot..and that kinda hurt. There were theme I didnt like the theme at their party but that wasnt the main thing.. I went because its a day to celebrate their new age and just be there for them and make memories... maybe I am too harsh to unfriend them but I want those around who care about me and wanna be there for me and want to make precious memories... if the theme is going to keep you from coming then oh well...