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I'm 9 weeks pregnant first ultrasound tomorrow and I'm the asshole because a guy trys
inviting my boyfriend to a strip club a state away in RI and to pick up girls and I responded by telling him "go do some more coke buddy" I'm not confrontational but what makes someone think it's okay to try and get someone's bf to not commit and on top of it we're EXPECTING! So needless to say, I hate this friend he's a lot younger...

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While I see everyone's points so far...that "friend" was being disrespectful to HER. Personally disrespectful to HER. To even suggest something so gross to a man who is having a baby with a woman who he loves and is faithful to is disrespectful to that woman. She has a right to be angry with him personally. And honestly, your partner doesn't need and frankly cannot have friendships with disgusting little boys like that while you are trying to have a family with him. So what if that dudebro thinks your bf is "whipped"?? Good! You should hope he does! The idea is to make this guy never even think of suggesting something so outrageous to your bf again, ever. And if he has to think whatever bad stuff he wants to think about you or your bf to make him never do it again, so be it.

I don't know, I think the responses were kind of assuming you or your bf need to maintain a friendship with this skeezeball...and you don't. And shouldn't. That would be the last time my partner ever saw or spoke to that guy. Not controlling, not whipped, responsible.

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Wait you said what?😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's definitely a little shady lol just blame it on the hormones and next time let him reply to his own friends and if you do feel the need to reply try not to call his friend a drug addict haha my hubby would be furious with me if I did that. Now your man looks whipped and you look like a you know what but it's all good just blame them hormones and maybe apologize to your man. And no I wouldn't be cool with that but I'd let him just reply no thanks I wouldn't have taken it upon myself to do that unless I was just as good of friends with the person.

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Exactly what Jen said. What was your boyfriend saying/doing when you told that guy off? It's him you'd have to worry about.

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You're not wrong for being upset  but I think you are upset with the wrong guy.  Your boyfriend should be the one telling his friend "no",  since 1. He's in a committed relationship,  and 2. You are expecting a baby.   The other dude is just being himself,  and he's got no obligation to you.

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