sweep 40+1

I'm booked in tomorrow for a membrane sweep.  I have had bad pain in my hips where I can't even get out of bed, I lost my dad 21St September and family and I are supposed to be going to sort his ashes he was in the Air Force you see, I really need this sweep to work does anyone know how I can make it progress when I've had it done in the morning, I know I should really wait for my body to naturally go into labour but I've been so down I feel like this baby girl will give me a focus. Please help x