okay so my boyfriend is really bad about controlling his jealousy. he can't stand for me to even talk about guys I know and if he sees me texting or talking to a guy, he wants to know EXACTLY what was said and why we were talking. he claims it's because he's scared of getting cheated on again. I get jealous too but I can control it. I don't really say anything to him about it. but every time I go to his work (he works at a grocery store about 2 minutes from my house so I'm there quite often because that's where I do all of my shopping) he's talking to the same female coworker. I know that they just work together and I don't care that they're friends, but since he's always getting pissed at me for talking to guys, I decided to turn it around on him. now, every time he makes a comment about me talking to guys, I say something about how often he talks to this girl. every time he always tells me that he'll stop talking to her if it bothers me. I went there tonight and he didn't see my car pull in (because he was standing in the lot) talking to her. as soon as he saw me, tried to hide behind the cart holder thing and then started walking over to me, I guess not thinking I saw him talking to her. when I came back out, he was standing outside talking to her AGAIN. 🙄🙄🙄. I mean seriously, does he expect me to just drop all contact with every single guy I know but it's completely okay for him to talk to girls, even after he tells me he'll stop?? wtf.