Is it my fault?

Question

I lost my Virgin at 14-15. After I broke up with him (end of freshman year) I got with K( we'll call him K)
I knew from the start that he was never the type to settle down any time soon. Drinking party. Fun. Staying out late. Sex. Good times
I was dating him for about 9 months. I loved having no worries more than school. (Not that he did his)
We were never worried about getting pregnant. He had a reputation for not using BC. I assumed that we were safe. We had a crazy night we're he half came in me. (In previous relationships he came in the without any BC and didn't pullout)
Anyway at 16, I found out I was pregnant. Our relationship didn't last a month after. It wasn't the same. I was pregnant. I couldn't drink and be that fun person I was before. He called me a dead weight and felt chained down. Honestly I did too. I felt like my whole life was a bore. I didn't know how to have a good time anymore.
We broke up, and I lost trust in him. I didn't want him around our baby, even though he was doing what I knew he would. I knew he wasn't ready for a baby, and I would've been doing the same if not for the baby. Still, he promised to be with the baby. 
I lost myself through pregnancy. I was such a bore. I never did anything fun. I didn't know who I was anymore. I found "me" again once I had the baby.
My son was born in December last year. He's almost a year and K helps as much as he can were he can. He is holding a steady job (the same as when we were together) 
•Was it my fault that I got pregnant? 
• was I foolish to stay with K for so long?

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It's both of your faults...not Just yours.

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Someone just stole this story and flipped it around. Just thought you should know.

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Since you were sexually active you should have gotten on some form of birth control if you were not ready, as far as being with him you wete young and you have fun when you young but i never was drinking when i was 16!!!

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Yes, it is. Children always play russian roullette with sex without thinking about consequences. You should still be doing kid things and not being a mother right now.  You have control of your body, if you were not ready for a baby you should have MADE him use protection. You already knew that he wasnt ready to have one, thats when YOU take control of the situation.

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My sister was also sexually active at that age and had her baby only months after her 16th she felt the same way you did and stayed with the father of the baby. They didn't work out but he still supports his daughter. Moral of the story children are a big responsibility it's a good thing he's stepped up to provide for this child and that you are able to take care of him also. If it feels right why shouldn't you stay with K? He might surprise you one day! I wish you all the best with this relationship if that's what you want in life x

Is it my fault?

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