is it just me?

Question

Does anyone else have like zero sex drive since getting pregnant? I'm only six weeks but since the night I got pregnant, we have not had sex once. He begs me for it, and gets mad when I say I don't want to, and he says that I never give him what he wants... and honestly it kind of makes me feel cheap, and then I don't want sex even more. I don't know if it's just me, or if this is something that is normal... but I think it's putting a lot of weight on our relationship. We fight a lot. But I don't want to have sex with him only because he wants it. If I'm not in the mood, I'm not in the mood. I can't help it.

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During the first trimester and now in third trimester I have had no sex drive. My poor hubby has blue balls from hell but he understands that I am in pain or feeling sick. During my second trimester my sex drive increased but not up to where it used to be. Your SO is being selfish not realizing how he is hurting you by saying that. You are growing a baby for Christ sakes! It's not as easy as it seems.

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26 weeks and not interested at all. We have it twice a week but I could go without.

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🖐🏻 me honestly !! I'm so freakin tired all the time that I don't want to. And I'm only 10 weeks but it's uncomfortable unless I'm on top and I just don't have the energy. He jokingly says I got what I wanted so now I don't want him. He knows it's not true and tries tone understanding and says it's for a good cause but I feel so bad, cause we went from everyday to maybe twice a week. 😳

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No, at first for me I was so sick with morning sickness I didn't wanna have anything to do with it and then I got better with the morning sickness and for some reason my sex drive just dropped off the face of the earth.. I love my husband but I just did not want to do it at all. And he would beg and yet I just couldn't get my drive going at all. Until I was at my last week of pregnancy, I just wanted her to come out and they said doing it would possibly help, but I didn't feel quite like I wanted to((in the sex drive department)). then after my daughter was born I am finally getting my drive back. I think I just didn't feel very comfortable with it and the hormones and my huge belly didn't help my case. Or maybe it was just me who knows. 😓🤔

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I felt soooooo tired and sick in my first trimester we didn't have sex... had sex again when I got to about 16 weeks as felt a little better.... then by 22 weeks I was showing a lot and my partner didn't want it lol.... so it's a journey and your partner needs to try and understand that as you have a long way to go x

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Girl I'm 37 weeks pregnant and once I found out I was pregnant I didn't want sex either. We actually stopped trying to have sex when I was 4 months pregnant. But now it just hurts to even try. Hang in there! I hoping after I have my little one things will go back to normal.

is it just me?

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