Adoption?

Question

I really just need some opinions, I'm almost 20 weeks pregnant and I really don't know what to do. I know that me and my boyfriend trying to raise this baby may not be the best thing but I don't know if I am mentally strong enough to give my baby to someone else. I wanna do what is best but I really am broken inside. My boyfriend really wants to keep the baby but we are only 17(I'll be 18 in a week). Any helpful opinions are highly welcomed.

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Maybe you should include a third party unbiased opinion such as a therapist. That way you can talk it out and have a mediator to help you both see both sides of it and come to a decision together.

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Here is my opinion. Being young and struggling a bit isn't going to make you bad parents. Hell, I know people who waited until 30, owned there own house, had a good job...and then the market crashed. If you feel that giving up your child is too difficult, I'd say stick with that instinct. It's gonna be hard no matter what you do. At the end of the day that baby will be worth it all. Ain't a thing in this world that's easy that is worth a thing.

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Maybe an open adoption, that way you're still a part of the child's like just in a less significant way.

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I was 18 when i had my first baby.. except I was single.. and I was able to do it on my own... it's scary i know but once you have that baby in your arms everything will seem different trust me.  I'm sure you guys will do great!

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Feel free to message me if you need somebody to talk to!

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I'd see a counselor for help. If you decide to give your baby up for adoption please message me.

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