tips on keeping up with yourself?

i feel like i have let myself go completely since being pregnant. i used to get my nails and toes done every other week and always kept up with my hair. now im lucky if i have enough gel to make my bun look presentable 😂 
i really want to be able to keep up with myself while being a great mom. ive been so obsessed with making sure everything is ready for baby that ive completely lost who i am under the yoga pants. 😟 i know most people say it just not reality but i see some moms that look great! and they're not neglecting their kids in the process. how do you balance maintaining your personal image while giving your  kid all the love and attention you possibly can? now theres no way ill be able to afford the nail salon biweekly anymore but i still want to feel pretty.