Caught him in the act.

So I've caught my hubby jacking off to porn twice now. Even though I see him doing it, he just tries to play stupid and then get pissed off at me, threatens to leave me over "accusing him". But im not, i know what i saw. Dick out, jacking off, headphones in, and clearly watching a video. It bothers me cause he's lying to me and it's also affecting our sex life. Like you know I just watched you do it but you still lie... And I'm the one who gets yelled at.. I can't even keep him hard anymore during sex, he fake moans (his real moans are actually sexy and real sounding his fake ones sound forced and fake, huge difference in sound) and watches tv while im riding him. He's so uninterested in having sex with me and it really fucks with me... Like sorry I'm not good enough to wanna fuck anymore. Sorry I don't look like a porn star. He told me recently I'm not much to look at.. Probably cause he's comparing Me to them.. I just wanna be good enough. Why don't I deserve the truth?

Update: I respectfully ask everyone to stop telling me to watch it with him. It will not make me feel better and I have absolutely no desire to look at other people nude besides him. I'm not okay with porn, so please stop trying to make me feel bad for having a different opinion than you. You are basically saying that how he is making me feel is completely fine. And it's not.