Getting frisky?

Question

I feel with being a college student, a mommy to a toddler and #2 on the way- it's impossible for me to find the motivation to have sex. I feel so bad because my boyfriend is always trying to cuddle and get all loveydovey, but after a while of not having sex it feels weird to get turned on (idk if that makes any sense?).. I'm just so tired and I feel so gross about my usually unshowered body. HOW or WHAT can I do to feel in the mood?? I want to get out of this stump and actively participate in our love life. I used to be so freaky, I'm so lame these days :( thanks ladies..

Answer

Maybe it would help if you got dressed up, hair, makeup... Whatever you need to do to make you feel hot. That always helps me get in the mood. Take care of yourself, then you can help take care of others.🙂

Answer

Let him know that you love him and want to be enjoyable for him.  That he needs to watch the kids while you go luxuriate in the bath, and that if he does this a few days in a row, you will be more in the mood :)

Answer

Tell your boyfriend how you feel. Tell him you need to feel better about yourself before you can get intimate. Hopefully he will get the hint that he needs to treat you to a special relaxation day! Like... You get to shower without worrying about the toddler! Haha but seriously if he doesn't get the hint just tell him that too! Good luck mama :-)

Getting frisky?

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