snobby grandparents

My grandparents are wealthy and I am not and I feel like they always try to remind me that. My grandmother is always talking to me about money. I feel as if they would rather throw money at me and want me to go away than spend time with me. It makes me feel bad because I try to spend as much time with them as I can because you never know what might happen. It's also obvious that their two youngest grandchildren are their favorites. My cousin (who's 22) and me (I'm 21) are their least favorites. I just hate how money always gets brought up. Like, they think when i come to their house I'm just looking for money and that's not true