About my husband.

I've been told how much things will change. I've been told my husband will not be capable of stepping up to the plate and taking care of a baby like they need, becasue he is a man and all men are incapable. I've been told when it's his night to get up, that I'll find him passed out on the baby monitor only to hear my child screaming from beneath his drooling head...I've been told it's going to be a lot of hard work and I'm going to be tired. That the worst is yet to come....

Oh my God, i am so sick of people puking their shitty lives on me. Guess what, I'm sorry you have a deadbeat for your baby's father. I'm sorry you had to partially do this alone until he stepped up. Sorry you didn't plan this and weren't living together when your child came, but to pass judgement on my husband, on anyone's husband becasue you didn't get what some of us have...jealous much?? This morning at about 5 I woke up to potty. I tried to go back to sleep and I got to thinking about a pie I didn't buy....10 fucking years ago...for my husband (then bf) mom. I started softly crying. The first sniffle my husband says " baby, what's wrong?" And put his hand on my belly....I have an amazing husband. One that, imo I didn't deserve to get. He is a fantastic human. Caring and gentle, strong and courageous. He is very much present. He works so hard every day and we have so much fun and share so much love. He is my very best friend. I never did nor will I ever think he is incapable of being a great father. The fact that I sniffled once, let's me know that that asshole is about as far from right as it gets when it comes to my man. I hope you guys have a great father to be by yourside...and those of you that don't, I'm sorry for you, but it's not really anyone else's problem so if you could just keep that to yourself, that'd be awesome.