frustrated

Not looking for advice; just needed to vent... I'm so irritated. Don't want to yell at my SO, but I could just throttle him. We've been talking about him moving in for ages. He lives almost 2h away. We had both thought he'd move in over the summer, but never happened. Now his roommates want him out by Thanksgiving. Instead of planning and figuring out how to make it happen, he's put it off. No reason, just hasn't done it. So I'm stuck literally spending my last penny on expenses I thought would be shared by now, and he can't even take basic steps without explicit instruction. I know financial planning overwhelms him, but it's not like he asks for help. Love him dearly. Just wish I didn't have to do every fucking thing every fucking time.