Will we work? Relationship help!!

Question

So there is this guy I've been talking to for a month and been on 3 dates with! We have great chemistry! But I just got over the honeymoon phase and I'm starting to realize that we are polar opposites( both the big stuff like sex and marriage and the little stuff like music)! One of my friends thinks that I should end it because I can't see us long term while the other thinks that this is just a rough patch that I need to get over and fight for the relationship! Help please!!

Answer

I'm sorry I find it weird that after only 3 dates you're over the honeymoon phase? That seems really really quick. My fiancé and I still seem to be in it and we've been together nearly 7 months. We've seen each other every single day since getting together. If I were you I'd move on to someone who can keep you overly excited and "in love" for a hell of a lot longer.

Answer

If it's difficult now it's. It going to get any easier. If you don't want the same thing then why bother. It's just going to lead to more fights later. Remember relationships aren't supposed to hell. If they are. You are with the wrong person. I have been with my guy 4 years we never fight. We talk calmly. He's 27 I'm 38. We have our differences. He likes different music than me but we compromise. I like pop and Spanish music and oldies. He likes alternative and rock and pop and oldies. We compromise. He does not mind when I put on Spanish music.  He likes sports. We compromise and I try and make an effort. I like chick flicks and comedy's and super hero movies. We have yet to see a chick flick but we compromise with comedy and super heros. He wants kids i don't. We had a miscarriage so it wasn't that I didn't try. We both agreed marriage would not be for a very long time. He still has a lot of growing up to do. Stability consistency he's still working on that. We both put in the effort and make it work.

Will we work? Relationship help!!

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