Honestly I don't know if I want my child's father at the hospital with me when I give birth. He has not been to one doctors appointment...every time I would ask him about helping me out he would steady bring up abortion. Basically his response would be mainly focused on himself and what he doesn't want at the moment. I mean I have only 38 days left and I just feel as though if he hasn't been there since the start I just wouldn't feel right with him sitting in front of my face after every conversation we have had and I know he does not want this baby to start with... so am I wrong for not wanting him to be there? What would you ladies do?