Will I ever want children?

Question

I'm 31 and I am currently indifferent about having kids... I could really go either way with it. I'm not currently trying for kids, but if I did get pregnant, I wouldn't be upset. I might even be happy about it.

I guess I just think it's weird I feel this way. At this point, I'm one of the only women in my groups of friends that doesn't have kids. And even though they all know that I feel fine with the idea of not doing so, they all tell me I would be a great mom.

Will I ever get that urge to make babies??

Answer

You might not. And that's okay! Babies aren't for everyone.

Answer

Are you married? Or in s long term committed relationship?

Answer

Don't worry about what anybody else says or thinks. If you are OK with it, that's all that matters. If you ever change your mind, that's fine too. Go with how you feel, not by would anyone expects of you. If people think you should will be a great mom, that's great, that doesn't mean you have to be one. You have plenty of time to think about it. I had my first at age 36 and I have no regrets about that whatsoever.

Answer

I didn't want kids until I hit 40. I don't like kids. Mines pretty cool...and I'm glad I waited. Loved my 30s, traveled, had fun and watch many friends divorce and complain about their choices.

Will I ever want children?

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