Move or Stay?🤔😳

Brittany
This might be a tad long so beware, but I need advice. 
So I am turning 21 next month my boyfriend is 22, he is graduating college in May. He plans on moving to Alabama because of a job opportunity presented to him. He wants me to come along. I currently am not in school. I'm taking a semester off an I'm getting an apartment with one of my friends. I'm moving in the day after my birthday next month. I am currently living in my boyfriend's mother's apartment. I dislike it there hygiene wise. So I made it a priority to move, he doesn't yet know. That's not the dilemma however, I don't see moving to Alabama as a prospect in my life. My boyfriend doesn't like LDR and he says there is no guarantee our relationship will survive. I love him and the thought of us breaking up sickens me. I'm aware that this can be either the greatest thing for me or not. He says that he can guarantee that I can find a job and go back to school. I told him that if there is a possibility that we'll break up in May because of me not wanting to move then let's cut it now. He's putting this on my shoulders to decide. I'm just not open to the idea and he says it irritates him that I'm not even open to the possibility. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I'm sure of that. But moving to Alabama or just out of the state in May is something I'm not at all sure of. Help. 

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