I'm so thankful that my fiancé understands that my back hurts and he tries to help. He doesn't question it either. I'm carrying her in my back and she's on my hips. On top of that I'm a cashier at a popular grocery store. (Really the only one in town other than Walmart) he gets that I only get 10 minute breaks and we don't get a lunch just 10 minute breaks. So at night he rubs my back. I'm so badly that I have a man that understands that making a child is hard work