Being abused by my dog son

I feel like my dog son is emotionally abusing me because whenever I feed him or take him out for walks it's never good enough. He never gets happy except when my boyfriend comes home from work. My boyfriend pays no mind to the dog at all so it's frustrating.. I try to be the best mom I can be. I buy him everything he likes but he doesn't appreciate me. He never wants to sit by me or lick me. Whenever I sit by my son he stares at me for a few seconds and slowly walks away. Do vets provide counseling for dog moms (human) and dog children or can I go to a normal therapist