skin to skin 😳😍

I am all for the skin to skin thing so me and my mother had a talk and she tells me this time you let that babe do skin to skin right outta your womb ☹️ so I said wait they have to wash the babe off first of course that's just ewh!! She yells and tells me it's my child and the ewh comes from me so I shouldn't be funny acting!!! I'm a very prissy type of female I don't like to much grossly stiff around me UNTIL I had my son I HAVE SEEN ALOT THAT I DARE NOT TO SPEAK ON!!! We are all mommies tho right? But do you all think I'm wrong for wanting my kid washed off before the skin to skin or it's just normal for some and not for others