What counts as cheating?

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I am currently with my boyfriend for 10 months. He's a really nice guy, but I would say he falls towards a more controlling side. For example, I used to have lots of guy friends before we got together. I really don't see anything wrong with having many guy friends because I've known most of them for years, and I never was attracted to any of them. After we got together, I could only keep in touch with them secretly via text because my boyfriend will get mad and we will start quarrelling. I usually don't like people controlling what I do, and i dropped some of my exes because they controlled me, especially my friend circle. However, I didn't drop my current boyfriend. Other than that, he is caring and nice. 
A week ago, I met a new guy friend and we got along pretty well. We could talk about anything and everything, and he confessed to me that he actually likes me. I rejected him upfront because I'm in a relationship, but he says he doesn't mind waiting and hopes that I will reconsider my decision slowly. We talk a lot. My boyfriend and I are also quarrelling a lot this month due to exam stress. 
My boyfriend doesn't know about this, but I didn't get into a relationship with the guy friend but I admit I'm kinda attracted to him. Am I wrong? What should I do? The guy friend tried flirting with me and stuffs like that but I brushed him off every time. I'm really confused with my own feelings right now and it's the first time I'm actually feeling this way..

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And that is the reason you don't make new guy friends while in a "relationship"... inappropriate. You should just break up with your current boyfriend if you need attention from other guys so badly.

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You got me fucked up. Hate people like you who do that to nice people.

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And this is the exact reason why you can't have friends of the opposite sex while you're in a relationship with someone. Not if you want it to be a serious relationship. The only time that it's acceptable to have a friend of the opposite sex is if the friend is mutual between the two of you and you hang out together with that friend. 
There's a reason why you don't hang out with a guy when you're in a relationship, and that's for the very reason and situation you're in right now. This is the very fear that your boyfriend has. It's the reason why he didn't like when you spoke with your guy friends. It's the reason you're fighting.

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Once I got into my relationship I cut ties with all my guy friends I texted & had convos with on the phone. My so didn't have to ask me it was out of respect for him. I wish his ass would text other females while we are together. I'm damn sure not insecure I just don't play that shit lol

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Leave the controlling loser...

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If you have to hide it its cheating, if your in a committed relationship then there should be no reason you are talking to a guy who has feelings for you. End your relationship or stop talking to other guys. You wouldnt want him talking to girls behind your back

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I don't see talking to people of the opposite sex as a problem as long as it really is just strictly friends. Obviously with this new guy it isnt the case, especially since he seems to be persistent. I made this same mistake, i kept in contact with the guy (the new guy friend in your case) because i really did believe we could be just friends, my ex bf saw the messages and freaked out. So id say stop talking to the new guy, figure out your feelings.
But honestly, you cutting ties with friends of whatever gender should be your choice, not because someone is forcing you to. Your boyfriend sounds kind of controlling if he's making you do anything. Including cutting ties with people in your life. It honestly doesn't sound like you and your boyfriend have a healthy relationship because you should be able to talk to who you want, and he should as well, because there should be trust.

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Do your self and your boyfriend a favour and leave him.

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Yes you are wrong. Move on and let your boyfriend find someone deserving of his attention.

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I wouldnt say its cheating, but i would put of talking to the guy until you figure out your feelings

What counts as cheating?

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