he proposed..?

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I'm a teen mom and he is 5 years older than me (no negative comments please) and I'm pregnant with his baby. I love him with all my heart and I understand where he is coming from, but I've already made a commitment to this baby.. And I don't feel like I'm ready to make another big commitment like that. And we are both young, so who's to say we won't change our mind down the road? He's a great boyfriend and will be a great father, I'm just not ready. Advice?

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That's a very mature decision. I say you are being very smart. Life changes the older you get and especially after a baby. Best of luck 💕

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Tell him exactly what you said.

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Tell him what you just told us. If you are not ready then you are not ready. Better to have a broken relationship than a broken marriage

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You have time for that. Baby does not mean marriage necessarily. Good luck!!

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Just tell him not now. That doesn't mean never necessarily just you aren't ready for another large life decision at this point in your life. There are plenty of unmarried couples with children who are just fine and maybe in a few years you'll know you want to be married. Or maybe it won't work out and save yourselves from a costly divorce. Just be a family without the paper. If you explain it to him he'll get it I'm sure. He may just be doing the right thing in his mind right now and not thinking it through.

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You phrased it so well here. If he really loves you like it sounds he does he'll understand.

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You tell him exactly what you just wrote on this page. You sound very very wise huni. Your baby does come first, and believe it or not life does change. I thought I would be with my first two childrens father. Who I met at 16 and got pregnant at 17yrs. Clearly that didn't last. Good luck to you sweetheart

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Communication is always the key. What you said was perfect. Let him know that right now your trying to focus on the baby and just want to be together right now and you'd love to talk about again after the baby

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Then turn the proposal down and focus on your baby

he proposed..?

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