Baby Shower Rant.😑

So my family wanted to have 2 babyshowers for me. Well one side of them wanted there own babyshower. But I didn't think it was fair for a part of my family getting a separate shower while my fiancée's family came together for one. So I told my family that wanted a separate shower that I was only having one. And to add to it they wanted to have the babyshower on Thanksgiving, plus they gave me a specific time to be there. It left me heated. So my family that wanted to have a separate shower refuses to come to the one I'm throwing for both families. Its not only that making me upset, it's the fact that my other family will not let my siblings come to my babyshower. I feel as if they're being selfish. I need some advice. My babyshower is this weekend. I know I probably can't change much, but I don't know.🙄