Scenario: My dad took his life when I was 11 years old.

It was a very traumatic time in my life that has left a lasting impact. I've been with my husband now for 8 years. He knows everything. We are expecting our first baby. I'm 32 weeks. I guess his anniversary hit me harder this year because now I'm going to be a parent, I realized she won't meet her grandpa, and I also realized time goes so fast. I guess I half expected after almost 9 years together that my husband would remember what day is the anniversary and maybe even ask me how I am doing today. But he didnt. I even mentioned it last week that it was coming up and texted him this morning saying I can't believe it's been this long, which he saw but never responded to. If you were me, what would you expect?