I guess things just happened that way...

Hello ladies.

I would like to tell you my little story of how I feel I was tricked by my now husband of 4 years.

We got together 8 years ago (I had just graduated hs) we had sex 2 weeks into our relationship. We both lived with our respective parents so sex was not often. (We both had full households)

3 years into our relationship we moved into together with a roommate. I thought maybe finally we would have frequent great sex.

Nope!

He worked at a call center at that time and he complained that he was always emotionally drained from work (getting cussed out alot)

And he also blamed it on having a roommate.

A year after that he proposed and told our roommate he had to move out when we got married. Finally! I thought, we will get to have more sex.

A year later we got married and had our honeymoon. 7 day Carribean cruise. I had to force him to have sex 2 times during the whole week.

We have the rest of our lives he kept saying.

A few months later he got a really good job making lots of money and working long hours. He once again blamed his lack of drive from work.

Sex was pretty much the only thing we fought about.

I made him get his testosterone checked and it's fine.

I know he doesn't cheat on me. He comes home covered in oil and grease every night.

At this point I feel like there's no point in begging and arguing with him. He's a great man, loveable, supportive, honest and kind.

He just doesn't care about sex.

As of today it's been about a month and a half. He acts like normal.

I just feel like I didn't know that my life was going to be this way when I said yes to his proposal 5 years ago....