Sexually frustrated 😒

I love my boyfriend soooooooo much. He treats me amazing. In bed i feel like im the more dominant one though and its a big turn off. Ive tried talking yo him about it but i also dont want to hurt his feelings. Idk what else to do. I love him but im getting bored of the sex. I just want him to take charge and do things without me asking him to do them. In the past ive gone for alot of fuckboys being in a bad mindset i let them treat me so shitty but the sex was soooo good. I just want that rough take advantage of my sex but treat me good out of bed. Now ive got an amazing man that is boring me in bed. I feel awful ssying it. Im just UGH