Needing to vent

I'm almost 30 weeks pregnant and the most help my husband has been is scheduling me a massage for this weekend and bring the crib upstairs. Even then he said it was ONLY 200lb. Excuse me I'm ONLY PREGNANT. I have a super physical job where I'm lifting heavy weights all night and I work 3rd shift so my sleep schedule literally revolves around everyone else. I swear he thinks he's the pregnant one. I'm so tired of doing the cooking and cleaning. When he tells me to just relax he doesn't get up and help. But the second my dog has an accident he will go out of his way to not clean it up.