Relationship Advice

Hey girls! Myself and my partner have been together for almost 2 and 1/2 years. My feelings have started to change. I still love him so so much but im confused if i love him as a partner or just as a friend? We are so close and he is an amazing person but i dont think i am IN love with him. I am moving to tauranga which is about 3 or more hours away from where we live (we live together) and i just feel like even though its not that long of a distance we will still struggle. I also feel like i have changed and i feel selfish for moving for school and for wanting to have my own time

I dont expect him to wait for me and all i want is for him to go out and maybe find someone better as i feel like i am being too selfish at thr moment to be in a relationship. I want it to be good between us and still keep in contact while im away, i just dont want him to wait.

I need yiur help girls, i am so confused on what to do 💜