watching porn

I've seen sooooo many posts about how if your man watches porn is cheating or how its controlling if you don't like him watching porn. CHILL THE FUCK OUT BECAUSE IT NOT YOUR DAMN RELATIONSHIP. If you're cool with him watching porn - then cool. If you watch porn together - cool do what you want. If you're not okay with it that's also understandable. It works for some couples but not all, but I don't see it as controlling. If a woman isn't okay with her man watching porn (or vise versa) then I think he should respect that. I mean he is touching himself to another woman - whether it's "not like he's actually having sex" or not it can still be bothersome to some people. I kind of see it like a kink if that makes sense, like some couples are into BDSM & some aren't. It doesn't work for everyone. I don't think it's right to shame someone for not being okay with their SO watching porn. Personally, because I'm in a LDR, I'm okay with him watching porn because I know he needs to get off somehow. If we were living together though I'd say hell no because he has me to satisfy him. I get though that some couples like watching together & that's totally cool too. If he asked me to watch it with him I'd maybe give it a try... anyways this isn't about me - JUST DONT SHAME PEOPLE FOR THEIR PORN PREFERENCE. Sorry just had to get that off my chest. Just live your own life & don't judge others for theirs & you'll probably live a much happier life. 🙂