bestfriend help

Long story short, I'm kinda in a bad place with my bestfriend.. I screwed up and I'm writing her an actual hand written letter (we used to do this high school but never mailed it) and mailing it to her house... the main reasoning for this fight is because we don't like to do things the other likes to do... she likes to drink, and i only drink when really needed or in social settings. 

So what I need from you ladies is help making a list of things you can do with your bestfriend that involves drinking and some things that don't involve any drinking at all.. please any suggestions will help!