is it really my fault?

Question

Last week my boyfriend and I were having sex and after we were done, I found out that he lied about it and he came in me. I complained to my friends about it and they told me that I should have made sure he wore a condom, and that I should have been in birth control pills if I didn't want this to happen, they were blaming me for that! I have just been sad about the whole thing and I don't know what to do.

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I'm assuming you're a little younger since this is the topic you'd like advice on. I started having sex at 15, but I never left birth control up to my boyfriend. I didn't want to have a baby so I took responsibility for that. I either put a condom on him, or when I eventually started birth control I made sure to always take my medicine. Yes he shouldn't have lied and that's something for you to consider in being with him. If he is going to lie to you then eventually you will not have good trust with him and it can ruin your relationship. But at the same time it is your responsibility to protect your body in that way. You consented to sex, and should make sure you as a person are safe. Honestly I would discuss the lying thing and consider if you even want to stay together..

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Yeah actually, it is your fault. If you don't want a baby, practice safe sex.

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Withdrawal is not a form of contraception. It takes literally seconds for sperm to go through the cervix. Please, get a proper form of birth control.

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You can only control your body and your actions.

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1) you can tell when a guy cums inside of you 
2) you can't rely on someone else to do the right thing-which is why you should be practicing safe sex on your own (female condoms, birth control, etc)
3) I hope you do not get pregnant because it sounds like you don't want to. Best of luck.

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You both need to take rsponsibility! If he wants to have sex with you, he needs to be mature and bring condoms, and if you are aware he doesn't have condoms, either buy some or get on BC and use it correctly! 
This is both your fault, not just yours. He should know the consequences of what he is doing, and unless he wants to be a dad sooner rather than later he needs to grow up. 
You both do.

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Sorry, if you're  old enough to be having sex, you're old enough to handle your own birth control. And your boyfriend is an asshole.

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How can you not tell he had an orgasm?

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No he should pull out.

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Youre friends are correct you could have told him to wear a condom or you could be on birth control but its also his responsibility to make sure hes being safe and wearing a condom

is it really my fault?

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