so i dont go over my in laws for anything because they dont like me for some reason and judge me to much. when i dont even do anything to them. It sucks cuz all my life i wanted some nice in laws but i guesss..... i have to live with it now.... So when i have kids how can i do it??  Even for parties or holidays. Its sad but she has her favorite daughter in law and son in laws so im out of the picture. But i dont really care cuz i would rather be alone with my future kids and husband in the holidays.  what should i do?