My boyfriends family invited me to thanksgiving.. but my boyfriend say he wanted to come to my parents so as the night went on it was getting late and I asked him when he was coming.. he said, "I'm find where I am I've had a couple drinks and I want to spend time with my family" it really upset me and felt like he didn't care and he'd rather drink. He wouldn't reply or text me back for hours.. I never got invited over and I even said my family has left and I was alone and he still never invited me... he finally told me they were watching a movie and he'd call.. well he passed out. I am so frustrated! We have been together on and off for 4 years, he's 23 I'm 21 and I'm at my wits end. I just wanna feel like I'm cared for and loved.. not someone he gets drunk and forgets about.. what do y'all think?