it's hard to name a kid!

We don't know what we are having yet, but holy cow is it hard to pick a name!! I would like something uncommon but not off the wall (examples like Amelia or Hadley for a girl) my husband dosnt like anything I pick but won't suggest anything either... the one name he did suggest is for a boy and he is set on it.. I think sounds like a dogs name (Otto..) I'm sorta okay with it I guess but I would like to look at other options... I wish a name would just stand out for both girl and boy but it's not happening yet.. ugh.. I love love Hadley for a girl and even tried to say "if we choose Otto for a boy then we get Hadley for a girl.." and he said NO 😭we have plenty of time left, but I think we are going to need everyday we have left to decide...