So maybe I'm pregnant...

Ok...

So according to the glow app my period was supposed to have started on the 21st of this month, and for the past three months it's been the 21st. I'm married, almost 4 months to the day, to a guy that I've been with for roughly 5 years. Though we waited till marriage to have sex, plus we just graduated from college, and got new jobs in a new state. Once my period was late, which it's usually early if not right on time, I started looking at early symptoms.

I don't have morning sickness, or any implantation bleeding, or breast soreness, or dizziness. The only thing I do have is some slight bloating, little cramping , and some heartburn for the past two days.

Is this enough to think I'm pregnant, and/or should I wait a few more days to worry? Do I go ahead and take a pregnancy test?

We weren't planning to have a baby for at least a few years, and just so you know plan B and abortion are not an option with us. So do I tell him now, do I wait till after the home test? Do I see a doctor, then tell him? And what's the best way to tell your new husband about an unplanned pregnancy?

I would ask my family these questions but to tell you the truth i would feel pretty judged, my mom says wait till I'm 30, im 23. My dad was hesitant about us even getting married. I have some supportive family but i truly am worried about the judgement.