OCD cleaner. when it's too much!!

I am having the hardest time at not constantly cleaning and disinfecting. I can't go to bed with dirty dishes and I have to put my daughters toys away.. in order.. and disinfected. I love a clean home for my daughter but I'm beginning to get annoyed with always trying to keep it perfect lol!!! The clothes are the only thing that gets pushed to the side. Anyone else feel my pain!?