So my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for about 4 1/2 months now. Not so long. We haven't told anyone besides a few friends that we are trying. Yet because we've been together for 6 years, and married almost 2 people keeping asking when are you having children? Have you got checked up to make sure everything is okay? And all these different questions. It's making me feel like there is something seriously wrong with me, and that's why I'm not pregnant. I was on birth control for almost 8 1/2 years and stopped that right when we decided we wanted to start trying ( 4 1/2 months ago) so I know it can take awhile to get your body back on track. More and more it just feels like people are assuming there might be something wrong with me and that's why I can't get pregnant.