No sex? Okay then...

Question

So I've cone to accept that my husband will never make a move on me to have sex or to help me with my horniness and all. Now I'm wondering why the hell did I even go on birth control if he's not even gonna have sex with me anymore. I give up. Not even gonna try being sexy anymore or even a tad bit pretty.

Answer

Maybe you both need some counseling or therapy or for yourself woman's space offers free counseling or pastoral counseling. Relationships are tough. They are what you make them. When both parties aren't putting in the effort the other feels why should I keep carrying this relationship. You feel drained. I'm 38 my guy is 27. Been together 4 years. We hit a dry patch. Started feeling like an old married couple same routine. Same restaurants. Same routine. He wasn't putting in effort or appreciating me. We took some time apart. I broke up with him a few times over the years. Eventually I caved and took him back and things were better. He realized his life is hell without me and would not jeopardize what he has. Since February, We started complimenting each other more, appreciating effort no matter how small, support and listening. No technology at the table. We started communicating more, no judgement no over reacting. He talks more than I do now. Used to need a crowbar to get him to talk for years... Year and a half a ago we had a miscarriage. I had broke up with him for 6 months and got back this February. Took a while. He worked far away during the summer and came home when he could absence makes the heart grow fonder.  But since Labor Day it's been amazing. We reconnected and fell in love all over again, had amazing sex which we had not in a year and a half. And we are like two kids in the honeymoon phase all over again. We don't fight. We talk calmly. Don't make decision when you are emotional they may bite you later when the anger and tears are gone. I hope things get better for you i truly do.

Answer

aww have you tried talking to him about it?

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