I got pregnant out of marriage which has me very very upset. I don't know what last name im suppose to give the kid now. His father left me on thanksgiving so my parents assumed I'd use my last name.

Well last night my mom posted my scan and used my last name. All her idiot friends thought she was having another baby (she's 65 that's why I call then idiots)

But my dad was freaked out by that and I really was too.

My ex is spanish so they traditionally keep both last names. his is the main.

Im just dont know what to do.

It's so upsetting.