am I the only one

So my husband wants to have sex or something I mean I can get him off but as far as him getting me to orgasim, it doesn't happen. He doesn't try then gets mad if I lie about orgasiming but he doesn't do anything with me, he gets mad if I say no to sex and yesterday he decided to jack off right after we had sex( yes he came, which usually means he's done for the day). Yesterday hurt my feelings since he did it right in front of me and we just had sex. I told him how I felt and he just walked away to finish his crap. I have been trying to lose some more weight and look sexy but apparently I'm not enough