unsure...?

Question

So my fiancé was telling me on a drunk splur that "he doesn't wanna marry me because "I'll take his money" we just had a baby... I'm not that type of person in any way. I love him for him and couldnt picture life without him.  Then I saw his messages to friends saying "f*ck marriage". Kind of hurt and could use advice to bring it up or if I should even at all. I know his one friend that was the only one that was married (we are young early 20's) had a bad experience and I'm not sure if that jaded his view. Idk...

Answer

You should probably bring it up, just in case he has some hidden feelings he's not expressing to you. I think you should straight up ask him if he is ready for marriage. Bring it up as if you want to hear more about what he was saying while drunk, but definitely talk about it.

Answer

Tell him that you want to talk to him. Ask him why he feels that way. Listen to him. See if it's something that you've done to make him feel that way. Maybe he's fearing marriage because of his friend or maybe he just isn't truly in the mind frame of marriage yet. Maybe he can have cold feet. Whatever the reasons, it's worth the try to know what his reservations are and to see if you can work through them.

unsure...?

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

25+ million

4.8 stars

20+

Getting Pregnant

Pregnancy

1st Year (Baby & You)

Baby Products