I just want to tell this to a community that is very understanding and can relate. I think is really annoying how women should always shave, look very good (mostly skinny and pretty), bleach their assholes and intimate parts, get eyebrows done... so much things. And yes, this is only IF YOU WANT TO. No one (not even your partner) can tell you what to do but, I feel so uncomfortable every time I have a partner because I'm very natural with my body. Don't shave, no hair dye, no nails done, no asshole bleached, I'm a little overweight... but every time I'm about to have sex I feel uncomfortable. Guys don't shave, guys don't have to take treatments, they don't care a lot about how they look (some do) but they expect a lot from us as women. I personally don't ask my partner to look good, and don't care; but I feel like every guy expects you to be like a porn star or something. Right now I'm dating a white guy. I'm Mexican. We're physically really different and since he has been in 2 serious relationships before I always feel bad while having sex because every time I go in my school lockers I see this beautiful white girls with no marks or acne on their body, they're mostly skinny and they're beautiful. I'm not. His last 2 parents were. I got to say I have boobs and a butt but it's not as pretty. I just feel so insecure sometimes even though he says I'm beautiful and that he loves me. Has anyone felt like this?